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is it really that hard? by Colliequest is it really that hard? by Colliequest
I'm sure there's a better way to word this, but it's just not coming to me. Might edit it later on.

Just really annoys me when someone uploads a stamp or something and you've got people in the comments saying immature crap like "Geeze, you're bat*** insane", or when discussing something they keep aiming personal attacks at the other person(s), or worse yet, basing their entire argument on personal attacks.

Besides, ad hominem (attacking the person's character rather than their argument) is a logical fallacy. A discussion/debate should be made up of rational thoughts and responses, not insults.

Okay, so I realize that we all snap at others once in a while, especially in a heated discussion. But at least try, y'know? If it's getting on your nerves, take a break.

Heck, I even know that throwing insults back and forth can, in a way, be fun. Infuriating when it's done to you, but fun to throw them back.
But still, wouldn't it be so much more productive to get a real argument and contribute to a thought-provoking discussing rather than simply cause a bunch of drama?
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TheSonicReploid Featured By Owner Dec 1, 2015  Hobbyist Writer
I agree with this. I see it happen all too often on here where, whether it's a misunderstanding, a disagreement, or--in most cases I've seen of all things--arguing about petty things such as shippings, characters or canon series where people think the only way they can get their point across is by cussing up a storm and throwing a cascade of insults at the person they are speaking with and everyone else. It's just so...immature.

Thanks for making this stamp. I'm SO using it!
ShinanaEvangelian Featured By Owner Oct 31, 2015
I just had that recently and then I found this. Awesome stamp, will use.
Vetrix64 Featured By Owner May 26, 2015
Seems to me that some people in DA can't seem to do so, especially if it was over a misunderstanding..
Nezrhul Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015
No...but being a dick is funnier.
MarioSonicPeace Featured By Owner Mar 25, 2015
Clap Thank you! I am a dummy! 
JonathanSkits Featured By Owner Dec 28, 2014  Hobbyist Traditional Artist
goli-man Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
Assertive communication: the act of communicating your own opinions on a way that respects the people involved, and had been scientifically improved to work better that passive and aggressive communication.
Just-Call-Me-J Featured By Owner Jan 4, 2015  Hobbyist
I'll bet it works on the internet, too.
megadracosaurus Featured By Owner Oct 29, 2014  Student
God, I so agree! Ironicly, I just had a situation like that. The person I was talking with suddendly put words into my mouth of how 'Mean and uncaring and stupid' I was, and that I called her 'a little bitch' and a whole bunch of other stuff I never said. Along with calling me a hooker...Dafuq? :/
Moonheart1313 Featured By Owner Oct 21, 2014
Dear god where has this stamp been all my life? XD
coconuttydog Featured By Owner Sep 13, 2014
I certaintly agree. Some people are just too bad. Faved
ErinTheEevee Featured By Owner Aug 3, 2014  Hobbyist General Artist
Try telling that to this douche in my signature. Most rude person ever, and he acts like a brick wall.
AntiRCCZealot Featured By Owner May 28, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
Well, it depends. What if someone is a supporter of the Nazis for example?
PaintDr0p Featured By Owner May 2, 2014  Student Traditional Artist
I try but these damn get on my nerves 
themysticenigma Featured By Owner Mar 21, 2014  Professional Writer
I try but people piss me off.
FlashXTwilight Featured By Owner Mar 12, 2014
I try but most people are to hard to work with
HalfAssPrince Featured By Owner Dec 25, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
GNGTNT105 Featured By Owner Sep 16, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
I defently wont say i "hate" them i just think as a less intimating word than "hate" i would say i "dislike" a person for their falts. But, if the person is genuinely crul, and or disrespectful THEN I can hate them.

I occasionally get rude,offensive, downright putting the artist down such comments I will tend to block that person, I don't want comment wars. But is it so hard for them to not be such an *pardon my english* such an ass to someone who as any right to everyone else to not deserve such punishment? Or hard for them to not comment and walk away?

I agree with this stamp all the way :+fav:
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Aug 28, 2013   Writer
I don't mind if people disagree with me, I only get angry if they are insulting me or cussing at me for not agreeing with them on certain topics. I prefer to get in debates with mature people who are polite and agree to disagree. Not people who act like children and get mad if you disagree with them.
goli-man Featured By Owner Nov 20, 2014  Student Digital Artist
My gosh I feel exactly the same! It's not your opinion that I dislike it's your method of delivery.
ChaoticDarkAngel Featured By Owner Nov 23, 2014   Writer
I know! Nobody has to be a jerk when stating something or having a debate. Especially on the internet some people use it as an 'excuse' to be rude or degrade somebody.
Tohokari-Steel Featured By Owner Apr 22, 2013
That's pretty much my sentiment in debats. If you're going to disagree with me, fine, but at least be polite about it. If they don't, my response is "Okay, you're gonna play that game? Well, I'll play along with you.".
AwkwardLoser Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2013  Student General Artist
JamestheDrow Featured By Owner Jan 4, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
so im not the only one who notices this?
The-Laughing-Rabbit Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist

Mike-the-cat Featured By Owner Jan 3, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Yes, it is hard. It's so hard to be civil when people make you want to lose faith in humanity. I feel a strong need to be blunt, to swear angrily at people who are obviously wrong, and angst over how stupidity will be the death of us all.

Seriously, I feel this way so many times.
Colliequest Featured By Owner Jan 7, 2013  Hobbyist Digital Artist
Well, I can understand where you're coming from, kinda.
I think there are times when it's not worth it to continue the discussion; I think this is the case usually when neither person will get anything positive out of it.
DivineNightShade Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013
I hate people like that. People are so rude and disrespectful and then they're like " Oh it's the internet, don't post shit if you don't want to get offended blah blah blahhhh." So that's their excuse for being uncivil? SMH.

Another thing that bothers me on this site when someone states their opinion and someone has to reply and be like "NAW JUST NAW!!11oneone." I don't like certain opinions, but I don't attack people for having them.
SizzleLizzle Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Student Traditional Artist
YES! Honestly I see that kind of thing everywhere!
I agree; I wish people would try more. :no:
Berserkeroo Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Student Digital Artist
To some dumb mother fuckers? Hell yeah it's hard!
SionnaDehr Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
I sometimes title my stamps insults like "morons" when the subjects of said stamps are acting like morons, but that's about the extent of my insults.
With that being said I fully expect discussions in the comments sections to be civil; especially among other users.
British-Prophetess Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Hobbyist Writer
Agreed 100%. I had this one guy (who disagreed with me on one of my stamps) said if I didn't like the internet then I shouldn't go on it. I never said I didn't like the internet in my stamp - I just said that I don't like the idea of the MLP characters being sexualised and I explained my reasons in a mature manner.

In response I said to him that if he doesn't like my stamp, then he shouldn't be commenting on stamps he hates.

People like that drive me up the wall. They should at least some develop manners and not attack people for their beliefs :\
thefruitsong Featured By Owner Jan 2, 2013  Hobbyist General Artist
Some people just rolled out of bed and decided to attack people to make their empty lives seem whole..... But sometimes the people being attacked had it coming
peacefulinvasion Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Hobbyist Artist
Whats funny is in a heated debate of any topic and both people are insulting eachother and eventually they loose track of the point and tell each other like some hypocrite that their arguments are invalid because they are insulting.
Torotix Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Professional Interface Designer
This goes for everything, rude people are just really horrible and scummy and always ruin your day...
GwenCanDrawZat Featured By Owner Jan 1, 2013  Student General Artist
I have to agree. :) It can be hard to be polite to those annoying jerks or people but just do your best and it'll save a lot of drama.
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